Ever notice how businesses of all types, not just real estate related, sell themselves much like high school kids? They want to be unique... just like everyone else.
Even when honest, the messages often sent don't mean anything to the potential customer. It's great you are customer-focused, honest, experienced, seasoned, been in the business lots of years, sold lots of houses, a leader in technology, a leader in your community, married, not married, kids, no kids, progressive, received sales awards, have a few listings, have hundreds of listings, like the beach, like to golf, like to fish, are active in local Realtor or Lender associations, or any of the other hundreds of great things about you!
But what makes that unique in the eyes/ears/memory of the audience... to the point of being remarkable? And by "remarkable", I mean something someone would learn about you and later literally remark to someone else.
It is human nature to see ourselves different than the world sees us. But that can be a limiting thing in sales (or other aspects of running a business). We want to be special. And we all are in our own way.
Look at your own marketing messages, for you as a professional, for your listings, for your loans.
Changing a few words around does not make for a unique, remarkable message. A "nice" message perhaps... but those get lost in the crowd of messages we are all bombarded with each day.
Quick... think of the last three new billboards you saw in the last 24 hours? A few people can do this but most admit the billboards are unremarkable and unmemorable. Is your message the same as all the new billboards? Boring and unnoticeable to anyone but you?
Can you really show how your marketing messages are that different from anyone elses? Are you doing what everyone else is doing? (note: Boring).
So, how to be unique? How to get others to remark? How to get referrals?
Your service, attitude and work ethic IS your marketing. It is what people will know you by, regardless of what your website, your brochure, your business card or your flyers say. And I don't mean doing what minimum effort everyone else does. Unique and remarkable is when your efforts are uniquely and remarkably way ahead of others.
(If there is interest in some examples of unique and remarkable efforts we've seen (or done ourselves), I'll be glad to post some ways to do that. Let me know.)
Become a person of value to others, and you will be valued. It takes time but building any good business or career always does.
Alone, pretty words everyone else uses would probably not convince you to buy something expensive. So keep that in mind as you build the message about yourself the world sees (haaa! real marketing!!).